The other day a stray cat appeared in our yard, the first I’ve seen in twenty years. A beautiful white kitty, she (I always assume cats are girls) sat on the grass, looking almost regal. After reporting her to several local animal sites, I tried to approach her with a plate of deli turkey. To my frustration, she bolted into the woods behind our house. Watching that kitty made me think of another stray cat we once adopted named Ginger.
One day, in the backyard of our former house, about thirty years ago, a young, thin brown tabby showed up. After several days of watching her hanging out forlornly, my husband Randy and I began feeding her. We wondered if she’d been born feral, although she seemed approachable, but still skittish. Something about her broke our hearts. After a week, she finally let me touch her, but she was covered in ticks, which I had removed at the vet. We named her Ginger after her cinnamon coloring.
Weeks passed and eventually I let Ginger inside. But from a life spent outside, I sensed she felt uncomfortable in this strange, indoor world. Our cat Floyd wasn’t keen on her presence nor was our Chihuahua, Ren. Ginger mostly sat atop our sofa, almost as if hoping no one would notice her. She could blend in and finally be part of a family.
Everything was fine, except for one big problem.
Ginger loved to hunt. Almost daily, she’d bring small, dead animals and their various body parts to our back porch. She probably thought she was gifting us for being generous.
One time to my horror, I found my inquisitive toddler, Patrick, about to pick up a mangled dead mouse from under a porch chair. Nearby lay a deceased chipmunk. Another time Ginger tried to carry an injured baby bunny into our kitchen.
I couldn’t handle all this carnage and tragedy. To my sadness, Ginger had to go.
Being young and healthy, I didn’t want to bring her to the vet to be put down. I also didn’t want to donate her to the Humane Society where she’d end up in a cage and probably be put down anyway. I wanted to do this kindly.
The only thing I could think of was this huge farm about twenty minutes away in a rural part of Newtown, Connecticut. Thankfully, Ginger had survival skills, since she was a stray before meeting us.
While my mom watched Patrick, I put Ginger in a carrier and took her to the farm. It was a beautiful, warm fall day. At least she’d have time to acclimate before winter, I figured. Parked on the side of the road, I gazed at the huge red barn in the distance. Fields of grass and crops grew as far as I could see.
Ginger looked at me with wide eyes from inside her carrier, as if asking what was happening. I got out and brought her to the edge of the farm property. The air smelled like hay with a touch of livestock and manure.
“Good luck,” I whispered as I opened the door to her crate. Ginger took a few tentative sniffs and darted off, disappearing into the tall grass. I sent a little prayer after her.
Thirty years later, when I saw that little white cat in our yard, I thought of Ginger and wondered what happened to her. I saw how luck plays such a big role in our lives, with animals and humans. Our parents, where we’re born, who raises us, the ups and downs of fate are all a test of fortune, good and bad.
I looked at that place in the woods where the little white cat had fled. Like I had with Ginger so long ago, I sent a prayer.
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Alana
Once again, you share bittersweet memories and I think of the stray cat I rescued as a child living in a housing project in New York City. My father gently reminded me of the “no cats or dogs” prohibition our landlord, the New York City Housing Authority, had. We would have been evicted. The stray had to go, and, the next day, I released her back into the city streets of the Bronx.
Laurie Stone
Oh Alana, that is so sad. I hope that little kitty found someone who could keep it. Those moments stay with us as children.
Pennie Nichols
If found our current cat Rosie on my parents’ farm, under a full moon behind a bale of hay. She’s hands down the best pet we’ve ever had for a number of reasons. I’ve often wondered where she came from, assuming she escaped from the scary people across the highway who have many animals they never tend to or fix. But, maybe the story is about a suburban mom who grew weary of dead mice and mangled lizards so she dropped her at a friendly farm.
Laurie Stone
Pennie, “Under a full moon behind a bale of hay…” Sounds like the start of an amazing story. And yes, I can relate to that suburban mom weary of kitty gifts.
Carol Ann Cassara
What a precious story, Laurie!
Laurie Stone
Thanks, Carol!
Alana
Years ago, I lived in rural Arkansas. Our next door neighbor moved to a nearby town and put his house up for rent. One of the tenants was an animal lover and animals loved her right back. Until you live in the country you have no idea how many city people drop their unwanted dogs and cats off and this was back in the 1980’s. Well, this neighbor took in all the strays. We really need options other than kill shelters and kind hearted people like you and my former neighbor. She had so many at one point that she literally used tags farmers put on cows with numbers to identify them. I don’t know how her (and the dogs and cats she took in) story ended because she moved away before we did. I hope it didn’t get to where she couldn’t afford to do what she did anymore.
Laurie Stone
Alana, Wow, she was a kind-hearted person. Wonder whatever happened to her and her menagerie!
Carol A Cassara
This is an absolutely beautiful story, Laurie.
Laurie Stone
Carol, Thank you!
Carol Ann Cassara
Ah, the story of Ginger. Loved it.
Laurie Stone
Carol, Thank you!
Rebecca Olkowski
My two departed pups were both found wandering around in the streets. I had them until they died at advanced ages. We have too many critters like coyotes, bobcats, and bears where we live and I am always worried about animals wandering around by themselves, especially the small ones.
Laurie Stone
Rebecca, You have such a kind heart. Wish there were more people who would do those kind acts.
Jennifer
From 2017 to 2018 when we were living with my mother, I was feeding two strays. One, I almost got to the point where he would let me touch him but not quite. But he did come running to me, once, when I came home. I called him Hagrid because he was just all fur and tangles. The other would never get close, but he was black and sleek so I called him Snape. He disappeared sooner than Hagrid. When we moved, a neighbor kept feeding Hagrid until he no longer showed up. I think Snape was someone’s outdoor cat who was just taking advantage. Hagrid, on the other hand, was a feral, who tried to catch our birds and looked like he lived a hard life.
Laurie Stone
Jennifer, All the hunting breaks my heart with these feral cats, although they can’t help it. Love the names Hagrid and Snape!
Lauren
You LEGIT took Ginger to the farm! My cat Dewey used to bring me presents. It was gross. Especially since he was an indoor cat! LOL. So basically he was keeping me safe.
Laurie Stone
Lauren, Having Patrick try to pick up various mouse parts (I didn’t even tell every gross story) was enough for me. Ginger was feral to begin with, so I knew she had the skills to survive.
Pennie Nichols
We had a wild bob-tailed tabby that would come around. I thought she finally trusted us (spent a couple of afternoons on the front porch with us, close, but not touching us close). Then she was gone. 🙁
Laurie Stone
Pennie, Wow. Now that is a story. Hope you write about that some day.
Diane TOLLEY
Oh, sweet Ginger! I’m quite sure, with her hunting skills, she thrived out there in the wild.
As a rancher, I often saw the other side. The poor unequipped and ill-prepared pampered pets being dropped off. They did not survive without help. I remember one day, my mom and I were standing in the yard and we heard a car approach, slow down, then speed up again. Mom looked at me and said, “Looks like we’re getting another dog.” She wad always feeding several!
Laurie Stone
Diane, Can’t imagine leaving off a dog! They seem less feral than cats. So sad.
Lea Sylvestro
Hi, it’s tricky with outdoor cats, isn’t it? They are a major cause of the decline in the songbird population, and anyway, like you, all those dead animals – equally charming chipmunks, snakes, and mice, made me too sad. We did adopt a stray cat decades ago, but brought her inside. Our malamute had to adapt to her…and the litter of 4 kittens she produced, that wandering hussy! We kept two of the kittens and they lived with us for 17 years – beloved members of our family. XXOO
Laurie Stone
Lea, OMG. Never thought of snakes. If Ginger had brought snakes into our house, you would’ve heard me in the next county! Sounds like you had good luck with strays…and their offspring!