The sight of that plastic sphere around Libby’s neck hit me harder than expected, her head poking out like she lived in Elizabethan times. After one night in the veterinary surgery, my baby looked tired, spent, and in pain. At pick-up, the nurse carried her out to our car and placed her on my son Paul’s lap who sat in the back. Every movement made Libby moan. I realized then we had a long recovery ahead.
Over the past few months, Libby’s had trouble moving. Her favorite thing had always been leaping onto people’s laps to shower them with kisses—whether they wanted it or not. But lately, if she tried to jump, she couldn’t make it. We all took turns lifting her up to our laps, bed, and chairs.
Her walking was getting more erratic, fine some days, but limping others.
Finally, after consultations with two vets, endless tests, and a sit-down with a surgeon, we learned Libby had torn ligaments in both legs, a degenerative condition. We could either operate on one side or two. Since we didn’t want Libby going through this procedure twice, we opted to do both.
Yesterday, we brought her home. My little terrier, usually so full of life, was heartbreakingly morose and lethargic. Her back legs were shorn like a sheep’s, etched with some serious looking stitches. She was loopy from medicine, but thank God, it kept her in a dreamlike, less stressed state.
I love this little dog (in case you couldn’t tell from the 20,000 posts about her). She makes my life happy with her innocence, playfulness, and devotion.
Now to my frustration, we learned she has to keep the cone on for two weeks, which might as well be two years. She hates every second of it. But if she doesn’t use it, she’d eat away at the stitches and be back on the operating table. I tell myself time goes fast. Before long, we’ll have our little Libby back, running and jumping, at least according to the surgeon.
By the way, I refuse to call it the “Cone of Shame” as I’ve heard them referenced. Instead, I call it the “Cone of Honor,” a testament to Libby’s—and other dogs—fortitude and patience.
I’m thankful for modern medicine and the wonderful staff that kept our dog from going lame.
Believe it or not, I’m even grateful to the “Cone of Honor.” I know it will help bring our sweet terrier back to us.
P.S. Libby made a full recovery and is, once again, jumping on furniture, beds, and laps (whether invited or not). We couldn’t be more grateful to her veterinary team.
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Alana
We don’t ever want to see our children, human or fur, in pain and discomfort. I’ve never worn a cone of shame (poor dogs who must!) but I broke my leg in three places when I was 10 and had to wear a cast (heavy plaster) from the tips of my toes to mid thigh for two months. Two months of not being able to take a bath or scratch an itch. And at least I knew why I had to wear the thing. I have so much sympathy for Libby. The good news is Libby’s full recovery.
Laurie Stone
Alana, I can’t imagine having that kind of cast. I get itchy just thinking about it. You also had to show strength and patience.
Beth Havey
I LOVE a happy ending, Beth
Laurie Stone
Beth, Libby is better than ever, I’m happy to report.
Joy Weese Moll
I always thought that Cone of Shame was kind of weird and needlessly mean. I like your term much better!
Laurie Stone
Joy, Thank you. I think dogs are noble creatures and deserving of a more respectful name for their plight.
Pennie Nichols
I know a few humans who would benefit from the cone treatment! 😉 I hope Libby has fully recovered by now.
Laurie Stone
Pennie, Ha ha! Yes, one specific politician comes immediately to mind.
Diane
I do hope this worked and that your little Libby is her old exuberant self!
Laurie Stone
Diane, Modern medicine is amazing. Libby is full of wild oats again, so grateful.
Rebecca Forstadt Olkowski
I hope Libby is feeling better. I saw some cone alternatives that looked like travel neck pillows that seemed a little more comfortable.
Laurie Stone
Rebecca, Thank God, Libby’s about to get hers off. It can’t come soon enough.
Janeane Davis
I am glad that you were able to get the surgery to help your beloved pet to get the needed help. I hope there is a speedy and safe recovery.
Laurie Stone
Janeane, Thanks so much!
Lauren
Poor Libby. When Fiona got fixed a few months ago her tiny little cone nearly killed me so we go her a more comfortable inflatable donut (literally hers is the size of a donut) instead. She was much happier.
Laurie Stone
Lauren, I’ll have to look into those other donut. The only problem is she still can’t scratch the itches, which can drive her crazy. A few more days to go!
Beth Havey
Our Grandogs have gone through this. It is so hard on them, but necessary. Wishing her the best.
Laurie Stone
Beth, I keep telling myself its hard but necessary. Thanks so much!
Mona Andrei
Awww poor baby! Our pets really do take a place in our homes, family, and hearts. Several years ago, my dog, Dakota, was attacked by another dog and her jaw was broken in two places. I had to feed her through a tube in her neck. (It was disgusting.) At the time, Dakota was only three months old. It’s amazing what you can bring yourself to do when it’s for a loved one.
Laurie Stone
Mona, Wow. Poor Dakota, that’s awful. What a wonderful “pet mom” you were to that precious fur baby.
Jennifer
Oh, my goodness. I hope Libby is better soon.
Laurie Stone
Jennifer, Thank you. She’s getting there, slowly but surely.
Rita
I hope things are better now with Libby. Keep us posted.
Laurie Stone
Rita, Thank you. I will!
Meryl
What a long recovery process for the poor dog, and her loving humans. Hopefully the uncomfortable and painful time spent will be worth it when Libby is bubbly and herself again.
Laurie Stone
Meryl, Can’t wait for our little joyful Libby to be back!
Lea Sylvestro
Ohhhh poor Libby! It is so hard to have a beloved animal friend in pain and so out of sorts. And keeping that cone on is a misery for all. I hope time does fly and Libby makes a speedy recovery.
Laurie Stone
Lea, Thank you. One week down with the cone. One week to go!
Carol Cassara
We use an inflatable cone that looks like a blow up pillow. There are other kinds of soft cones, too. They do the trick without being so uncomfortable. Cutie uses hers as a kind of pillow when she has to wear it. She also tore a CCL in January but no surgery at this point. She went to extensive physical therapy including underwater treadmill and swim therapy. It is not normal and could recur and makes also other leg more sensitive to that happening. Plus she likes to jump and leap off things, no sense. I wish Libby a full recovery!
Laurie Stone
Carol, Libby is also a jumper and leaper, so not surprised she had leg damage. So sorry for your little Cutie. The hardest part for Libby is that she can’t get at those probably itchy stitches.
Diane
Ohmyword! Poor little Libby! How terrible when our bodies betray us. SO grateful for the miracles of modern medicine!
Looking forward to the post when Libby is again whole and healed.
Pandy just had to have her lady bits snipped. She was very sad and had to wear what we called ‘the cone of sadness’ for a few days.
I like the term ‘cone of honour’ better!
Feel better, Libby!
Laurie Stone
Diane, So sorry about Pandy, but at least you won’t have a bunch of little Pandy’s running around! Yes, look forward to when Libby is her old self again.