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Life is stressful. But there’s one thing my mom and I do that takes the edge off. The New York Times publishes a daily game called “The Spelling Bee.” You’re given seven random letters to make as many words as you can. One of the letters (which they select) has to be in each. What’s so hard about finding a bunch of nouns and verbs? Ha! This game can be a huge pain, but there are three surprising benefits…

Distraction –I can barely remember my name early in the morning, let alone root out adjectives and participles. In “Spelling Bee” no less than four-letter words are allowed and the longer the word, the more points. I like how doing this puzzle jumpstarts my brain. Some people plow through and do half — even the whole thing — at once. Mom and I are “grazers,” people who pick it up throughout the day, like the knitting.

In its own way, “Spelling Bee” takes my mind off the world’s issues. And there’s something else we’ve noticed — “fresh eyes” help. You can gaze at this thing until you’re cross-eyed and see nothing. Then you’ll pick it up later, and five words appear like magic. Maybe there’s a lesson there.

Challenge –Sometimes the words start popping like corn kernels in hot oil. Then I hit “the wall,” so to speak. How can there be more? I’ve come up with 30. But judging by the score, I’m only halfway through. There’s also a “pangram” (sometimes several) which are words that use each letter and have the most points. Sometimes a pangram is simply two small words strung together like ‘typeface.’ Other times they’re looking for ‘armadillo.”

The next day Mom and I check to see what words we missed. Once in a while, only one got away. Other times there are several – most we never heard of. And then sometimes there’s a bunch of words we should’ve gotten but didn’t. Sigh. We’re only human.

Satisfaction – After dinner, mom and I compare scores. It’s embarrassing to admit how often my 80-something year old mother beats me. But she’s an avid reader and loves the English language as much as me. One time, between the two of us working at it, we got the highest score, the lauded Queen Bee, where you find every possible combination.

But that was once. Usually we get to “Genius,” which feels good too. That means we got most of the words so we can at least hold our heads high. Then there are nights we’ve come up with 50 words between us and still aren’t close.

From what I’ve read, “Spelling Bee” is buzzing around the globe a lot these days. “Hivers” include lawyers, students, surgeons, politicians, and housewives.

Who knew? Mom and I aren’t the only ones needing distraction.

 

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Comments(46)

    • Leslie Girmscheid

    • 10 months ago

    My friend loves this game. I have my hands full with Wordle, Worldle (note the different spelling and it’s a geography game), and Scrabblegrams. I am amazed I get to my desk in the morning!

      • Laurie Stone

      • 10 months ago

      Leslie, I’ll try out Worldle. Never heard of it. Love geography.

    • Carol Ann Cassara

    • 10 months ago

    I do Keyword every morning at the WaPo.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 10 months ago

      Carol, Never heard of that one! I’ll have to check it out.

    • JANEANE M DAVIS

    • 12 months ago

    This sounds like a nice way to wake up in the morning! I will have to check it out.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 12 months ago

      Janeane, As a word person, I know you’ll like it!

  1. I should start playing this.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 1 year ago

      Carol, It’s fun…in a sadistic way.

  2. We have just discovered some lovely little card games by Helvetiq with really nice colours and illustrations. Kariba is about animals drinking at the water hole and getting chased away. Misty is a bit more abstract – around the idea of drawing pictures on steamy windows! So abstract we haven’t quite worked out how to play it yet! lol We are also liking tile games like Quirkle and Ingenious. 🙂

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Jennie, Sounds like you have some fun games going! I love how they help pass the time.

  3. About two months ago I started playing a similar game called WordCount on my iPad in the evening. Trying to hold off Alzheimer’s Disease, but I love it and now my husband and I play together every night.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Rena, How nice that you and your husband play together!

  4. Love this! Especially that you play with your mother. My someone and I play Scrabble against each other when we’re not together. It’s fun and to your point, great for the brain 🙂

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Mona, I used to love Words with Friends, but haven’t played for a while. Should get back into it.

  5. Fascinating your post and all the answers. My husband is addicted to number puzzles and does two every day. I don’t do puzzles, though this one does sound interesting. We get the NYT on Sunday, so I will look for it.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Beth, You should give it a try. I bet you’d be good.

  6. I hadn’t heard of it but I haven’t had a physical newspaper in years. Only online. The NYT always boots me out because I don’t have a subscription. I wish I could say there’s a game I play but I don’t. For a while, I used to play Backgammon. But now, I can’t remember how.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Rebecca, You can play Spelling Bee online, but need a subscription, alas. If you want to just play just their games, the cost is a little less than getting the whole paper, for whatever it’s worth.

  7. What a great distraction and it’s so good for your brain! Now I’m going to have to check this out! Thanks. I really needed something else to waste my time (eye roll).

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Lauren, Laughing. I’m going to argue its actually good for you! (At least that’s what I tell myself).

  8. WHERE do you find time? It does sound like fun,though

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Carol, Start first thing in the morning on my I-Pad while still in bed! Pick it up here and there during the day. It helps take my mind off the craziness out there.

  9. Great idea and great game, although I’m not sure about starting my day that way – too frustrating! I have been playing Mah Jongg with my Mom, sister, and niece online. A fun game and we get to chat.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Meryl, How nice to play Man Jongg on line and with your family. I’ve never played although always wanted to learn.

  10. Sounds like fun, I’ve already checked it out!

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Jennifer, As a word person, I’m sure you’d be really good at it.

    • Lea Sylvestro

    • 4 years ago

    I love your comparison of words to corn kernels popping in hot oil – so visual and sensory all round. Fun for you to share this game with your mom while giving your brain a boost too. For awhile I was into Suduko (now, I’m not even sure if that’s how you spell it!) and for awhile, “Plants VS Zombies.” Video games hold no appeal for me, and yet that one….sigh. It was TOO fun. The music and zombie sway literally invaded my sleep patterns and I had to take a permanent “Zombatical.” But, particularly in Covid world, a fun distraction is key, and I’m glad you and your mom share Spelling Bee! XO

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Lea, Mom and I both love it, although both find it frustrating. So impressed you did Suduko! As a writer, you can work with numbers too? Very cool.

  11. We have this in our newspaper every day, but ours has nine letters and is called Target Master. I love them.
    Our rules are No slang, no plurals ending in ‘s’, no foreign words, no hyphenated words and all words must be four letters or more. The challenge of course is to find the nine letter word then as many as you can. Today’s Target Master has 13 words minimum, then 18, then 22+, so far I have found 31 words.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      River, Good for you! I find you can stare at these things for what feels like hours and see nothing. Look away and a bunch of words come popping out!

    • Diana Walsh

    • 4 years ago

    Play it every day. Love it and share all of your thoughts. Then I move on to Letter Boxed and the daily crosswords.sanity savers as I am solo these days.

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Diana, Glad to meet a fellow Hiver! I do the mini crossword to get my brain working each morning. I’ll try Letter Boxed. I’ve also tried Vertex, which is suitably frustrating. I find Tiles kind of fun and soothing.

    • Joy

    • 4 years ago

    Ooooohhhh sounds fun, Laurie! I should probably check it out! As I get older I realize the value in challenging ourselves mentally. I’m pretty sure that’s also a recommendation experts give when it comes to avoiding dementia—just trying out new things. A game I play on my phone when bored: (1) candy crush, (2) wordscapes. 🙂

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Joy, Never tried Candy Crush, although I know its popular. I also agree that working our brains as we get older is important.

  12. I have found myself doing The NY Times News Quiz regularly. It comes out once a week on the weekend and it’s made my reading of the news during the week more careful and curious, digging into some of the more obscure articles in case they come up on the quiz. I’m surprised at how much I look forward to the quiz and how disappointed I am when occasionally they don’t offer it. LOL

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Lisa, My mom and I also love that quiz! Have to admit, it’s a little humbling sometimes. My knowledge of the news is pretty basic. Anything on the fringes or sports-related goes right over my head.

    • Pam

    • 4 years ago

    I LOVE this game! Play it every morning. The problem? I have a digital subscription, so my play gets cut off after I’ve found a random number of words. And, no, I haven’t given in to the $7/month subscription fee to play the entire game! Perhaps I should……

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Pam, I actually subscribe. I figure I don’t buy diamonds and furs these days (not that I ever did), so this is my guilty pleasure. That and my Kindle. Glad to hear from another “Hiver.”

      1. I just subscribed! I deserve it! Thanks for the inspiration.

          • Laurie Stone

          • 4 years ago

          Pam, Great! I’m sure you’ll find it fun (at times)!

  13. Ohmyword, I’d LOVE this game! Word games are absolutely my favourite! My Dad used to play a daily word scramble game. I remember him handing me one from weeks before when my family arrived for a visit. There were two words on it he simply had never gotten. I stared at it like a monkey doing a math problem, then handed it to my daughter, who has autism. She glanced at the two words and immediately spoke both aloud. I envied her more in that moment…
    Is this a game that’s available everywhere?

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Diane, Its in the daily New York Times. Unfortunately, for a year’s subscription to the game, they’ll charge you. And that’s the only way to play. Still, it might be worth a try and you can cancel anytime. Your daughter sounds amazing as all those children are. My son Patrick spent the past five years working with autistic kids and their families. Was blown away by all of them.

      1. I got to play a game! This is totally awesome!!!

          • Laurie Stone

          • 4 years ago

          Go for it, Diane!

  14. Sounds like fun! — especially with two people. I’ll give it a try! I have friends who do “Words with Friends” the same way — grazing…..

      • Laurie Stone

      • 4 years ago

      Nancy, It is fun, especially with another person. I also love Words with Friends.

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